Following this article
are Exgay video testimonials
"Orientation" refers to sexual ATTRACTION - not sexual
LUST. A heterosexual orientation means that a person has an attraction to, and can enter into a romantic relationship
with, members of the opposite gender. A homosexual orientation means that a person has an attraction to, and can enter into
a romantic relationship with, members of the same gender.
So, what is the reality that one can change his sexual
orientation? The church tells us that God would not make us something that is not good (under their assumption that being
gay is not good). Millions of people are born disabled, either physically or mentally, and shall we say that God made them
that way? Of course not.
Am I implying that homosexuality is a disability? A
birth defect? Not at all. The point is that one cannot say that God would not make a person to be a certain way or thing,
because that comes from a lack of understanding as to how a human is made. The fact is, that God gives the breath of life
when the sperm meets the egg. From there, nature takes over and determines the initial mental and physical make up of a human
- which can only be altered by an outside influence (say, an operation that enables a lame person to walk, or medication which
repairs a chemical imbalance....or, brainwashing which causes a person to think or behave contrary to their natural functions).
The church and "ex-gays" claim that it is possible
for gays to change their sexual orientation, saying "God can do anything!" True homosexuals and "ex-ex-gays" claim that
it is not possible, saying, "God made me gay, so why would He try to change me to straight?" We all know that
there is nothing that God cannot do. With God ALL things are possible. If He so chooses, He can change you from
one race to another, or make an extra limb grow from your shoulder. But asking whether or not God can do something
is NOT the issue. What does it mean, exactly, to "change orientation"? It means that a person utterly abandons his like
for members of one gender and completely picks up a like for something he formally did not like - members of the opposite
gender. Simply giving up sex altogether does not constitute a change in orientation. Orientation exists in every single human
whether they have sex or not.
When considering the issue of orientation change and
whether or not it is possible, a heterosexual must ask himself or herself if it is possible for them to cease their
own mental and physical attraction for the opposite sex AND to become mentally and physically attracted to
members of the same sex; for this is exactly what the proponents of the "orientation change" doctrine would imply is possible.
If it works one way, it must of necessity work in reverse as well. So, knowing that God can do anything, we are not asking
"Can God Do It?", but rather, "Does God Really Work That Way?" Watch the following short videos to hear what members
of exgay organizations have to say.
